Why do guys abandon girls?
I think I will not be mistaken, saying that the majoritygirls faced with such a situation, when they threw a guy. Why do guys abandon girls? Let's try to deal with this issue, despite the fact that the guys themselves generally do not like to spread on this topic.
Did he have another one?
Many girls are mistaken when they think thatguys throw them because of more beautiful rivals. The appearance of a chosen one for a guy is, of course, important, but not so much that he leaves you just because the other is more attractive. Have beautiful girls, believe me, a lot of their problems. And it is they who, more often than others, suffer from loneliness only because they raise the bar too high. The expression of the face of the painted beauties is often such that it is simply terrible to approach them. These girls are inaccessible, arrogant, unfriendly. Unless from a sports interest someone will risk to look after such whimsical beauty. And it is not a fact that the result will justify the efforts spent. Therefore, the guys believe that it is wiser to take care, let not for such bright, but friendly and open girls.
So if the other is not prettier than you, then whatthen it's better, why are you, and not she wonder why I'm thrown guys. The answer, oddly enough, is on the surface. The one, the other, most likely, the more interesting person, it is pleasant to spend time with her, she does not roll up hysterics and does not create problems.
To be a substantial person you need, yesno, it is just necessary to engage in self-education, to be interested in psychology and even parapsychology, to read the literature on the development of personality. In this case, even if your guy will pay attention to other girls, in the end, he will have to admit that you are still better.
Not appreciated is what is easily given
Guys do not appreciate highly what is easily given to them. Available girls are more likely to lose. The guy gets what he wants, and disappears. And he wanted sex. Yes, he told you about feelings, compliments. But all only because without romance he was not able to achieve the goal. It is possible that, seeking his own, he hoped for your great emancipation and sexual activity, but was disappointed. And so he disappeared, deciding that he should not again take care of, waste time and money, if in the end he gets the same result.
You are not more important than anything else
Why do guys abandon girls? Why disappear out of sight? Sometimes just because they are passionate about their business, sports, hobbies, that it is more interesting for them to spend time with friends. And if the guy has disappeared, then you are not the most urgent for him above all.
Guys do not like it when girls load them. Tears, whims, claims, as well as addiction to cigarettes and alcohol, foul language - all this can cause them to leave. Sometimes they are ready to suffer for the sake of something. But, when, say, there is no sex, or he is bad, and the girl at the same time is constantly loading, the guy, as a rule, prefers to disappear.