The four main rules of love that have never failed
You can not force another person to love you
People do not have to reciprocate with everyone who loves them. You, too, are unlikely to love someone you do not like, but crazy about you.
Therefore, one must treat feelings and choicesother people with respect. You can improve and become better than before. Then the person whose love you are trying to achieve - a man, a woman, a grandmother, a grandfather, a teacher - will decide for himself whether you deserve his feelings.
If you are loved, then you will feel it
Everyone at least roughly representsimagine what a good attitude looks like to him. If you are singled out among the others, if you spend a lot of time, treat with respect, take care of your feelings and try to fulfill your desires, you will notice it. And it does not matter in what form all this will be manifested.
But if you think that you are not enoughstretch, if you often hear excuses from joint meetings, it's an occasion to take a sober look at the situation and not to come up with excuses for the cooling partner, tormented by the question of whether you are all right.
To love another, you must first love yourself
Self-love is not selfishness or napyalivanieCrown on the head. This is respect for your desires and feelings, taking care of yourself. This means that you will never betray yourself for the sake of doubtful pleasures or for the sake of serving an indifferent person to you. Love for yourself allows you to save face and act beautifully in any situation.
If you know how to love yourself, treat other people with love and respect. And you never force a partner to do something for you against your will.
If you fall out of love, do not try to keep
This error in relations concerns many. However hard it may sound, no person in the world is obligated to love you forever, regardless of whether you gave birth to three children or built a palace, putting a necklace worth a million carats at the entrance.
And if it so happened that the feelings have passed,think that it's better to put a stop to the old story and start a new one or keep an indifferent person next to you, imposing yourself like a bag of potatoes.